Make your Own Love Spell Jar

It’s never been easier to make your own custom love spell jar. You can customize it to fit your personal needs, whether it be for you to find new love, to increase the love in an existing relationship, or just to bring back some happy memories into your life. Whatever your specific purpose may be, a love spell jar can be as simple or complex as you make it.

Ingredients and Supplies:

  • 1 Small jar (Mason jar, mini bucket, etc)
  • Herbs of your choice (Rose petals, thyme, lavender, chamomile, lemon balm, etc)
  • Essential oils of your choice (lavender, rose, lemon, clove, etc)
  • Small vial of honey
  • Small shell, crystal, or piece of jewelry or fabric
  • Pen and paper
  • Matches/Lighter
  • White candle


  • Find a quiet place where you can take your time and concentrate. Begin by taking a few deep breaths and still your mind.
  • Take the jar and paper. On the paper, write down your intention or purpose for the love spell jar. Speak it out loud, maybe 3-5 times, and then fold the paper and place it inside the jar.
  • Cleanse and charge your herbs, essential oils, and other items with white light. Visualize how the light is getting brighter and brighter as it cleanses and charges them.
  • Take the herbs, one by one, and place them into the jar. Visualize how their powers are blending together as you place them into the jar.
  • Take the essential oils, one by one, and place drops of each one into the jar. Visualize how their scents are blending together and changing the energy around you.
  • Place your shell, crystal, piece of fabric, or jewelry into the jar. Visualize how it is absorbing your energy and the energy from the herbs and oils.
  • Take the vial of honey and place a few drops of honey into the jar. Visualize how the sweetness from the honey is helping to bring balance and harmony into the jar.
  • Take the white candle and light it. Visualize how the white light is helping to bring in positive energy and banish any negative energy.
  • Once the candle has burned out, vigorously shake the jar up and down while focusing on your intention. Visualize how the energy in the jar is strong and powerful.
  • Set the jar somewhere safe and leave it undisturbed.

Finishing Up

Your love spell jar is now complete. To keep it charged and active, set it in the moonlight outside during the waxing and full moon cycles, or light the candle again if it needs a boost. Every once in awhile, speak your intention out loud and visualize how the jar is working to bring your intention to life.

Making your own love spell jar is a powerful experience. Crafting something powerful and personal for yourself is a beautiful thing that can create many positive changes in your life. With a bit of patience and concentration, you can make a powerful, custom spell jar fit for your magical needs.

Love Spell Jar Mediation


  • Quiet and comfortable space
  • White candle
  • Love spell jar
  • Journal and pen


  • Create a quiet and comfortable space reducing distractions and outside noise.
  • Light your white candle and let the flame burn for a few minutes until you can feel a sense of relaxation and peace in your space.
  • Hold the jar in your hands and take a few deep breaths, centering yourself and counting your breaths.
  • Visualize yourself surrounded by a cocoon of white light and repeat to yourself 3 times “My highest truth finds me now”.
  • As you finish counting your breaths, feel your own energy in the room moving through and merging with the energy of the jar.
  • Visualize and think about your intention for the jar. Picture how it will manifest in your life.
  • Allow yourself to feel joy and peace as you think about this.
  • When you’re ready end the meditation. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths.
  • When you’re feeling completely grounded, pick up your journal and write down all your thoughts and feelings.
  • Keep your jar somewhere safe and warm, and charge it in the light of the full and waxing moons.